It’s been a LONG time since I’ve been to a Catholic mass. While at a wedding, I was confused when the response to “The Lord be with you” was not “and also with you”. They changed that for some reason to “and with your spirit”. Several other things were changed as well. It’s all confusing, overwhelming, and intimidating to me. So many rules and regulations it seems.
I not criticizing and don’t mean to offend anyone who is Catholic. I just honestly don’t understand it all. When I attended church (Lutheran), I understood that God’s grace was enough.